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Stress

Struggles

November 9, 2018 by Kelley Lynn Leave a Comment

There are times in life when we struggle, or when the people in our life struggle, or when you are both struggling because you pass the stress back and forth like a virus, because you are both hurting and you just want to help each other.  And sometimes, you can’t.  You just can’t help much. Not because you don’t want to.  But because maybe you…

Filed Under: Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: widowed new love, worry, kelley lynn, struggle, Stress

Overdrive

October 16, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

For those of you not aware of what “overdrive” is in a car, I’ll try to simply explain it.  Overdrive is a gear in the transmission that is less than a 1:1 ratio with the engine. Effectively, the wheels turn faster than the motor. It’s great for cruising at higher speeds.  The engine doesn’t have to work as hard, so it’s a more…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Mike Welker, widower with children, cars, Metaphors, changes, Anticipation, widower, Stress

The White Rabbit

July 28, 2018 by Bryan Martin Leave a Comment

Alarm goes off and it hurts to get out of bed. I was asleep by 10 pm last night and it’s 5am now. That’s 7 hours! 7!! Why am I exhausted? Up I go and into the bathroom. Brush my teeth, get dressed, take meds, get yelled at for food by the cat, walk the dog, pack my lunch, rush to eat breakfast, gym for 1 hour, catch up on texts, emails and…

Filed Under: Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed Tagged With: widowed missing him, bryan martin, Stress, LGBQT Widowed, exhaustion, Obligations, Responsibilities

All the Responsibilities

June 14, 2018 by Olivia Arnold Leave a Comment

The last little bit has been very busy for me. I have report cards due at school tomorrow and I’ve been sick (again). I’m finally getting over it but I’ve fallen behind in the things I need to do. So I’m writing this at 10:00 pm at night, just after finishing report cards, which is not like me but I haven’t had any other time. Not to…

Filed Under: Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Stress, olivia arnold, Responsibilities, busy, Work, widowed doing it all alone

PRESSURE

May 25, 2018 by Kelley Lynn Leave a Comment

This year is the 10 year anniversary of Soaring Spirits International.  This Sunday is the official anniversary day of when Michele founded the non-profit.    July 13th weekend, I will be presenting once again, at Camp Widow San Diego.  July 13th will be the 7 year anniversary of my husband Don’s sudden death.  July 13th, my book about his…

Filed Under: Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy Tagged With: anxiety, worry, Stress, writing

My Mind; My Power

May 3, 2018 by Olivia Arnold Leave a Comment

I’ve been really down lately. I don’t know exactly why, but I have some ideas. Work has been overwhelmingly stressful, and I’ve been constantly sick. I will think I’m better from one sickness and a day later I seem to have something else. Every time I get sick or I have a really hard day at work (which is often) I seem to sink a little bit…

Filed Under: Widowed Emotions Tagged With: widowed sadness, Stress, sick widow, positive thinking, Positivity

Dormant Memories

January 16, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

If you’ve read Sarah’s Post this past Sunday, then you are aware that she and I (and Shelby) were in Corpus Christi, Texas, over an extended weekend.  One of her longest and closest friends was marrying, and Sarah herself was a bridesmaid.  In that regards, I wasn’t a widower this past weekend.  I was the “second partner” of a widow.

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: dating, Return, sarah treanor, Home Town, Stress, Mike Welker, love, triggers, Wedding, new partner, Dating a Widow, widower, reminders, memories, Trips

Have a Friggin Holly Jolly Christmas

December 19, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

As we near Shelby’s 11th Christmas, what will be our third without Megan around, I’ve got my head down.  I’m powering through this week at work, excited more for the 4 day break from the monotony than any festivities.  Every activity, preparation, and event seems more like a “have to” than a “get to”.  Wrapping gifts, baking…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: traditions, perspective, Christmas, widower, Stress, Mike Welker, Holidays

Stress

November 20, 2017 by Wendy Saint-Onge Leave a Comment

I have a lot going on right now and I am feeling extremely stressed out.  Life in general is not going well for my youngest daughter, and in order to help her cope I have decided to leave work and stay home with her for her second semester of school this year.  Also, I have just found out that I require surgery on Dec 7th which will take me out…

Filed Under: Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: mental exhaustion, Christmas, wendy saint-onge, Ben The Titan, widow christmas, anxiety, Stress, exhaustion

Go, Go, Go

October 17, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

In the past 30 days, we’ve had a birthday party/ family reunion, visits with friends, Sarah’s sister in town for a few days, Shelby’s best friend at the house after school for five days, a fall festival, halloween costume prep and decorations, dress fittings, tuxedo fittings, counseling appointments, extremely busy days at my work, extremely…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: life, writing, busy, Self-awareness, Pace, widower, Stress, Mike Welker, mindfulness

Words as Weapons

February 7, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

It’s no secret lately that I share my outlooks, experiences, and emotions with ruthless integrity, perhaps bordering upon over-sharing that information.  Private anecdotes become public, once a week, as I write here.  The quiet grumbles or “bad moods” that friends and family may see me in become soap-box seminars when it is in digital form…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy Tagged With: dealing, Mike Welker, history, widower with children, pedestals, writing, release, silence, wounds, tools, Past, sharing, Scars, Words, widower, creative, Stress

Devolve

January 31, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

I’m a mess lately.  Around the start of this past holiday season, I began regressing to a point where I am again a cynical, grumpy, and in general, angry person.  It has nothing to do with Sarah, Shelby, work, or even the holidays, really.  It truly does have everything to do with the fact that Megan is no longer here.   It’s not her death,…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Mike Welker, Devolve, Old Self, anger, Marriage, jealousy, counseling, grumpy, Issues, Unresolved, widower, Temper, Stress, Evolve

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