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Bah Humbug

December 17, 2019 by Emma Pearson 1 Comment

I am trying to get festive. I really am. But little things tick me off. Like Christmas decorations. Particularly the really garish ones. And the plastic snowmen. The ones in our house are okay. Right now, that’s the sum total of an undecorated Christmas tree. And fairy lights that never actually went down after Christmas 2017. Somehow they have…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Holidays, Multiple Losses Tagged With: widowed, multiple losses, widowed holidays, Holidays, Christmas, Child Loss

I Don’t Like Dessert

November 5, 2018 by Staci Sulin Leave a Comment

I don’t like dessert, so I will not be serving it with our Thanksgiving dinner. I have never really liked dessert. And, Mike didn’t like dessert either.   I wonder if that is a coincidence?   I think not.  I can tell you that I don’t think there are any coincidences in life, even when it comes to dessert.   I almost always pass on…

Filed Under: Widowed Holidays Tagged With: Thanksgiving, Holidays, StaciSulin, widowed holidays

Remembering to Live

October 14, 2018 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Everyone has a favorite holiday. Mine is Halloween. I decorate the house inside and out. I spend tireless hours on costumes. I await my first haunted house of the season with eager anticipation. I’ve always liked this holiday, but it wasn’t until after Drew died that it became something I appreciated more deeply. Just 4 months after he died, my…

Filed Under: Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Holidays Tagged With: haunted house, embracing humor, sarah treanor, Holidays, coping, halloween, traditions, finding joy again

Semper Fidelis

May 29, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Yesterday was memorial day in the United States.  Every year, on the last Monday in May, we Americans fire up the grill, go to parades, ignite fireworks, buy red-white-and-blue everything, and celebrate the unofficial start of summer.  We hang our flags, complain about the heat, and have a drink or four to commemorate the day off from work.

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Holidays, Military Widowed Tagged With: Sergeant Jeanette Winters, Memorial Day, War, widower, Mike Welker, Holidays, military, honor, Marine Crops

Hollow

April 2, 2018 by Staci Sulin Leave a Comment

In every store you visit the shelves are lined with colorful, foil wrapped chocolate bunnies.  They stand neatly organized in the aisles, adorned with ribbons and bows.  At first glance, these holiday treats catch your eye because they look shiny and decadent.  But, things aren’t as they appear.  We know the bunnies are hollow inside even…

Filed Under: Widowed Holidays Tagged With: Easter, emptiness, empty, hollow, widowed holidays, Holidays, StaciSulin, grieving at holidays

Stored Memories

December 21, 2017 by Stephanie Vendrell Leave a Comment

When I was a kid, Christmases were pure joy and fun. It meant cousins, grandparents, decorations, special dinners, holiday treats, and sometimes, winter fun like snowmen and sledding. It meant no school, warm fires, music sing-a-longs and laughter. Pretty soon I grew up. Christmases were still, for a few years, about family and love and gift…

Filed Under: Widowed Memories, Widowed Holidays Tagged With: memories, Holidays, stephanie vendrell, widowed recreating life, Christmas

Have a Friggin Holly Jolly Christmas

December 19, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

As we near Shelby’s 11th Christmas, what will be our third without Megan around, I’ve got my head down.  I’m powering through this week at work, excited more for the 4 day break from the monotony than any festivities.  Every activity, preparation, and event seems more like a “have to” than a “get to”.  Wrapping gifts, baking…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: widower, Stress, Mike Welker, Holidays, traditions, perspective, Christmas

Creating Christmas

December 17, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

This year, Christmas has given me a lot to consider. Reminders to give myself ample time to take care of all that needs doing, so I don’t get overwhelmed. To give myself at least 30 minutes each day to myself, to do something that relaxes me, like yoga or taking a walk or drawing, in order to help me stay sane. That daily maintenance has been a…

Filed Under: Widowed and Healing, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: sarah treanor, Holidays, loss, grief, coping, new traditions, Christmas, creating tradition

You’re a Mean One…

December 12, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Ahhh yes…the holidays.  It is a constant ride of ups and downs, like the world’s most depressing roller coaster.  Kicking off with Thanksgiving.  Spending time with friends and family, circled around a hearty dinner and laughter, I get to remember that Megan died just a week before that day.  I don’t get to remember the 33 prior enjoyable…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Memories, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: winter, Christmas, Minefield, widower, memories, Mike Welker, widower with children, Holidays, triggers, Music, songs

Making the Most of Christmas

December 10, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Even now Five and a half years later There are days when I just want to disappear To run away from everything All the materialism of Christmas especially   Because no matter how hard I try No matter how many lights are on the house No matter how many ornaments are on the tree No matter how many Christmas songs are played So much is missing too…

Filed Under: Widowed and New Love, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: loss, grief, new love, new traditions, Experiences, escape, building new memories, sarah treanor, Holidays

Sitting Beside Grief

November 26, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Today I’m writing about a different side of grief… about being the one sitting beside someone who is grieving. About those moments watching a partner who is widowed go through their own pain. It’s no secret that Thanksgiving is a hard holiday for Mike. His wife died just a week before this holiday 3 years ago. Hitting the 3 year mark is hard…

Filed Under: Widowed Holidays, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Therapy Tagged With: Thanksgiving, Holidays, support, 3 years, dating a widower, sarah treanor

Itching and Aching

November 23, 2017 by Stephanie Vendrell Leave a Comment

It’s official. We signed the lease this week, my boyfriend and I, for the house we will occupy for the next year. I’ve decided to only think that far ahead, and it’s made it a little easier. Because it’s a huge transition, moving from the house I shared with my late husband for so many years.   It’s also not a huge transition. I’m only…

Filed Under: Widowed Holidays Tagged With: grieving at holidays, Holidays, stephanie vendrell

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