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Metaphors

Overdrive

October 16, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

For those of you not aware of what “overdrive” is in a car, I’ll try to simply explain it.  Overdrive is a gear in the transmission that is less than a 1:1 ratio with the engine. Effectively, the wheels turn faster than the motor. It’s great for cruising at higher speeds.  The engine doesn’t have to work as hard, so it’s a more…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Anticipation, widower, Stress, Mike Welker, widower with children, cars, Metaphors, changes

Revolution 34

September 25, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

If many of my posts sound like a broken record, it’s because they are.  For those of you old enough to remember, the slightest scratch on a vinyl album could stop the music in its literal track and replace it with two seconds of repeating sounds.  It was aggravating when it happened. You could hope that it was just a blip. A speck of dust or an…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Memories, Widowed by Illness, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Metaphors, Music, imperfection, next chapter, widower, memories, Long Term Illness, Mike Welker, widower with children

Taking the Lead

August 21, 2018 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

There were so many reasons for Megan to be proud of Shelby.  From her sheer intelligence, to her love for reading, to even her quirky weirdness.  She appreciated that Shelby had a love for nature, at least tiny animals and flowers.  We would take Shelby camping at least once a year, but due to Megan’s condition, that was the limit. We took one…

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Woodland Preacher

December 5, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

“You bathe in these spirit-beams, turning round and round, as if warming at a camp-fire. Presently you lose consciousness of your own separate existence: you blend with the landscape, and become part and parcel of nature.” -John Muir   It is no secret that John Muir inspires me to no end.  While my love of nature and being in the wild places…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Nature, Hiking, wilderness, Mountains, widower, John Muir, Mike Welker, Self-reliance, love, Wild, widower with children, Disconnect, religion, Metaphors, death

Damn the Torpedoes

October 24, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

The excitement of new. The knowing of strife. The frustration of sickness. The commitment for life. The determination to protect. The joy of more days. The newness of health. The fear it won’t stay. The sliver of hope. The knowledge of none. The witnessing a demise. The grief that begun.  We struggle, we cry. Anxious, we fear. As time marches…

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Onward and Upward

September 26, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

“The journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step” – Lao Tzu   It’s true.  It the most literal sense, one cannot achieve a goal, or complete a journey, without taking a step towards the goal.  No matter how trivial a task may seem, this quote is meant to bring perspective that even the most inconsequential of actions is needed to…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: determination, Toughness, widower, Mike Welker, Metaphors, resilience, perspective, quotes

Over the Hump

August 1, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

As Sarah noted on Sunday, I stepped off into the mountains last Friday, disappearing into the wilderness on the border of Tennessee and North Carolina.  It’s no surprise to any of you that have read my posts for these past two years that backpacking, in isolation, is the most transcendent experience that I personally can have.  No matter how my…

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Crossing a Bridge That Never Will Be

May 30, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Way back in September of 2012, Megan, Shelby and I took our first backpacking trip together.  Shelby was only 5 years old, and Megan was almost two years past her lung transplant.  I meticulously planned the trip, choosing the Blackbird Knob trail in the Dolly Sods Wilderness, in West Virginia.  I was already intimately familiar with it, knowing…

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Stumbling Greatly

December 18, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

I recently heard an interview with Pema Chodron, a well-known Buddhist nun and author of the book When Things Fall Apart. This woman is chock-full of wisdom. And she got my mind turning about something this morning. In the interview, she talks about a graduation speech she gave recently, telling those brave young folks about to embark into the…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: death, challenges, Mountains, making it through, landscape, harsh, widow, daring, sarah treanor, stumbling, loss, grief, Metaphors

Legacy of a Tree

June 14, 2016 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

The American Chestnut is a large, stately, useful tree.  At one time, over a quarter of the eastern American woods were populated by this tree.  The wood is rot resistant, the nuts are delicious, and even the oils in its bark has medicinal properties. Nobody wanted to see the Chestnut go away, and it didn’t want to die off.  Over eons it…

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What do You Think?

March 22, 2016 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

So I bought a table.   It was only forty dollars, and it’s a little round glass patio table.  Shelby and I spent an hour or so unpackaging it, laying the parts out, and assembling it.  I know this sounds completely mundane, even boring, but bear with me.  This table symbolizes something.   It’s not sentimental, really.  It wasn’t…

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Falling Water

December 14, 2015 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

There exists in Cuyahoga Valley National Park a small waterfall called “Blue Hen Falls”.  For thousands of years, this ripple of water has been flowing over a sandstone ledge in 3 ribbons, proceeding on its course towards the Cuyahoga River.     Spring Creek, it’s namesake being a natural seep about 1000 yards upstream, isn’t a…

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