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This Particular and Peculiar Sense of Non-being (Reboot)

Posted on: December 9, 2020 | Posted by: Alison Miller

Alison is on the road this week and won’t have access to internet so we’ve chosen this post from 2017 to share with you until she returns next week.  Enjoy! There is a particular and peculiar loneliness of the sort that cannot be imagined for its’ overwhelming and enveloping totality, that strikes me when I […]

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Widowed by Illness, Miscellaneous

Arriving in Community

Posted on: March 7, 2020 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

Until last Saturday, I had never been to a Camp Widow event. I watched as a team of dedicated, compassionate and talented people created a space for the LGBTQ widowed. Held at the beautiful Los Angeles LGBTQ center, was the first ever event for my subgroup in the widowed population. If you’ve attended an event, […]

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Belongings, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy, Widowed Community, LGBTQ+ Widowed, Widowed Suddenly, Widowed by Illness, Miscellaneous, Uncategorized

Nightmares Now and Then

Posted on: August 18, 2019 | Posted by: Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker

I’ve had some really weird and disturbing dreams the past week. The sort of dreams that don’t really relate to anything in my actual life but have lots of very stressful or strange things going on in them. In these dreams, nothing appears to relate to my actual life in any particular way. Nothing symbolic even seems to be obviously about my…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing

Understanding “Freedom”

Posted on: July 6, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

The Fourth of July – All things summer right? It’s cookouts, pool, family, sunscreen and fireworks. All the freedoms you get living in the good ole USA. It’s funny how the word freedom is used. By definition, freedom means you are not enslaved or forced to act or be a certain way. You are not trapped. Of course, for the USA freedom means all of…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

The Scariest Part of Surgery

Posted on: June 1, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

This blog will be short because I had a lasik procedure this week and my eyes get tired quickly.I’ve never been one to be comfortable with eye stuff. I hate eye drops and the thought of contact lenses makes me cringe but I was so fed up with glasses that I decided to go through with the surgery and get it over with. As the day got closer, I got…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

Defiantly Defined

Posted on: May 18, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

So this blog is a bit different than I usually write. This week I’ve been obsessed with terminology. Have you ever stopped for a minute and thought about words? Where did they come from? How they got their meaning and if they fit? Well it hit me this week that I HATE the terms widow and widower. I think the definitions are ridiculous and need to…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

What Lies Within

Posted on: May 11, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

It’s an interesting thing how people around you say they understand and they will be there for you. However when you have a tough day and they respond by saying: “I thought you said you were ok and moving on.” “I was ok that day but there are no rules to what’s going on in my heart and my head.” In all honesty I don’t know how to say…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Memories, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

Baggage

Posted on: May 6, 2019 | Posted by: Staci Sulin

When I began my life without Mike 2.5 years ago, I felt like I landed in a foreign country and I could not speak the language.  There was a sense that I was standing helplessly in the baggage claims area.  I simply didn’t know where to go from there.  I did not know how to proceed without my life companion.  I desperately wanted to ask someone…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed

Call Me Anytime

Posted on: May 5, 2019 | Posted by: Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker

I watched the first episode of a new show on Netflix this morning called Dead to Me. In the episode, two women meet at a grief group, both widows. They end up building a new friendship as late night phone buddies since neither of them are able to sleep. The show goes on to take a lot of unexpected twists and turns (and believe me you should so…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed Effect on Family/Friends, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Community

Small Screen Surprises

Posted on: May 4, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

I had my sister and a friend in town this past week and it was wonderful. We had a great time relaxing and just enjoying each others’ company.  All of us are working a side business together with a big company and doing very well.  The company had recently reached out to me and asked me to host a local event. What an honor and what an amazing…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

Things That Matter

Posted on: April 26, 2019 | Posted by: Kelley Lynn

Since becoming an involentary widow almost 8 years ago, I have changed in many positive ways.  I am more empathetic.  I am more sympathetic.  I am less judgemental of people’s lives and situations and circumstances.  I listen better.  I stop to talk with people more.  I find more meaning and beauty in very tiny things.  I exist in the moment…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Effect on Family/Friends, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Community, Widowed Suddenly, Widowed by Illness

Please Sign and Date

Posted on: April 20, 2019 | Posted by: Bryan Martin

Well the past two weeks I have been absent from blog writing. The first anniversary of Tin’s passing was quickly approaching and I honestly was scared. Scared to think about it. Scared to talk about it. Scared that when the day came, it would make it more true. For the first few months, holidays, birthdays I felt like it was a short enough time…

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Memories, Widowed Anniversaries, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, LGBTQ+ Widowed

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