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Evolving

February 5, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Being that both Mike and I are both writers here, we do try to talk about our relationship as two widowed people, to share how this whole “chapter 2” thing can work. There are plenty of times this is awesome to write about – when we have things to share that show you how beautiful loving again can be. How beautiful it can be when two people…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: bereavement, widow, chapter 2, sarah treanor, problems, struggle, working together, loss, grief, new love, death, challenges, growth, learning

Building New Wings Ain’t Easy

January 29, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

For the first few years after Drew died, I lived in between lives. Back then, I remember distinctly feeling that way. Many of the photographs I took spoke to this. I wasn’t in my old life, nor was I in what I would define as a new life. I recall wondering what it would be like to one day live in a new life, instead of the in-between. Back then, I…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: loss, grief, Change, death, regaining confidence, love after loss, bereavement, new places, moving, insecurity, widow, change after loss, sarah treanor

The Journey of a Life

January 22, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

  There are days that make you look at the places you are arriving more than the ones you are leaving behind. Mike and I spent most of the afternoon yesterday out hiking. It was the first warm, sunny day we’ve had in ages in Ohio… and it put me in an especially grateful mood just to be existing and feeling the sunshine. We went to a big…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: death, Nature, bereavement, river, journey, widow, sarah treanor, metaphor, loss, grief, lessons

Bleeding Out the Pain

January 15, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Last week I shared about feeling like some new layers of my grief are beginning to thaw as we shifted the calendar into what is my 5th year on this journey. I was pretty teary the week before, but it wasn’t until this past week that the breakdown came. Quite honestly, I’m glad for it. It was such a release. I don’t even know why it came when…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: pissed off, sarah treanor, feeling pain, loss, allowing emotion, grief, breakdown, lessons, death, anger, 5+ years, five years, bereavement, angry, widow

Live New Today

January 1, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Here we are. A new year. I woke up feeling weird about that. I think mostly I am annoyed. Annoyed by all the expectation that society holds for everyone to have this wonderful sense of hope for what’s to come on this day. Annoyed that every widowed person out there has to deal with the weight of that expectation as they manage to crawl across…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: grief, celebrating, death, Expectations, bereavement, New Year's, living new, widow, sarah treanor, loss

Outside the Walls of “Safety”

December 4, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Mike left around 3am Saturday morning, headed out to West Virginia. It’s his first major solo backpacking trip since we’ve been together. Three nights out in the mountains alone, with no cell service. Our only form of contact has been a satellite device that lets him send me preset “all is well” messages with his location every few hours (this…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: widow, sarah treanor, loss, grief, new love, taking chances, death, Risks, bereavement

Holidays and How our Stories Unfold

November 27, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

There were two really meaningful things about Thanksgiving for me this year. Firstly, I was at my sister’s house in upstate New York. For the first time in our adult lives, we now live close enough to each other that we can do the holidays together. This is an enormous deal for me… one that makes me wish our mom was alive to be a part of it…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: living in the moment, new joy, interconnected, widow, sarah treanor, loss, grief, death, life lessons, bereavement, new chapters

Life is for Living

November 20, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

In a few weeks, Mike will be going on his first major backpacking trip since I have moved here. This is a big deal for me. Drew died while he was away on a trip. Mike is going to be alone in the woods, in potentially dangerous cold temperatures, with zero cell service, for several days. One of the reasons that he hasn’t been on any solo…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: finding joy again, death, life lessons, bereavement, living life, widow, sarah treanor, loss, grief

Life Lessons from Haunted Places

October 30, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

I have always loved Halloween. Drew and I both did. We were always sure to find the biggest and best haunted houses to go to each year. We spent weeks on our costumes, making everything by hand. We’d go out to parties in character and win costume contests, and enjoy the whole experience of it all. Since his death, each year, I think I have come…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Holidays, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: sarah treanor, loss, grief, halloween, finding joy again, death, life lessons, bereavement, living in the moment, haunted houses, widow

Celebrating the Tiny Victories

October 23, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

This week, I went to the art museum by myself. This was a really big deal, or at least, I am deciding it is. Since moving to Ohio, I’ve been reluctant to get out on my own. I have only a handful of places I can even drive to without having to use a map to get me there. The shopping center by the house, the post office, the fancy grocery store 10…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: regaining confidence, bereavement, new places, small victories, moving, widow, sarah treanor, loss, grief, celebrating, death

Mending Furniture & Hearts

October 16, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

I’ve had a couple of really beautiful, full-circle moments recently. The sort that have reminded me in such sweet ways how totally interconnected my old life and my life now still and always are. This past week, we finally got my couch moved into Mike’s house from the garage. And by my couch, I really mean Drew’s. I have been dragging this…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: hope, loss, grief, new love, death, New Beginnings, bereavement, widow, sarah treanor

An Agreement with Death

October 11, 2016 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Hey readers! I’m filling in for Mike today, as he had something come up and was unable to write. He’ll be back with us next Tuesday, so until then, I’m here to wander through some of my own thoughts of late and see what bubbles up… Mike and I have spent the past few months moving all my things to his place, as many of you know. After a…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: widow, bereavement, sarah treanor, widow remarrying, loss, agreement, grief, new love, death, new partner, New Beginnings, fear, acceptance, loving again

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