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Into the Fall

September 9, 2018 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Yesterday was the first day of the year to bring in an autumn cold snap here in Northeast Ohio, along with the remnants of the tropical storm that came through Florida last week. Since I woke yesterday, it’s been a slow, steady dripping rain… the kind where you can still open all the windows and feel the brisk air and hear the gentle drops on…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Miscellaneous Tagged With: death, fall, seasons, widow, Autumn, sarah treanor, loss, grief, Change, six years, widowed lessons, Looking Back

Waiting in the Wings

June 17, 2018 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

This past week was the 6th anniversary of his death. I wrote last week about this, and what would have been our 9th anniversary together the week before. I will always hate that these two dates are a week apart. It’ll always piss me off to have to have my anniversary of celebrating our love so closely linked to when he died. But it is what it is…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Anniversaries, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy Tagged With: widowed, widow, sarah treanor, grief, support, death, anniversary, loving on, 6 years, milestones

Woodland Preacher

December 5, 2017 by Mike Welker Leave a Comment

“You bathe in these spirit-beams, turning round and round, as if warming at a camp-fire. Presently you lose consciousness of your own separate existence: you blend with the landscape, and become part and parcel of nature.” -John Muir   It is no secret that John Muir inspires me to no end.  While my love of nature and being in the wild places…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: Nature, Hiking, wilderness, Mountains, widower, John Muir, Mike Welker, Self-reliance, love, Wild, widower with children, Disconnect, religion, Metaphors, death

Knowing Them Deeper after Death

October 29, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Today is my Dad’s birthday. It’s hard to believe he died 8 years ago. That eight entire years have passed, and so much more living has happened for me, since he died. It’s hard to believe I’ve been without any parents now for eight years. But it’s amazing to see where things have gone in my life since his death. Not only the good, but…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Parenting, Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses Tagged With: parent loss, sarah treanor, grief, death, parenting, losing a parent, child grief

And So it Must Always Be~

October 3, 2017 by Alison Miller Leave a Comment

In the before moments As you hold tight while trying to let go Waiting for that last breath Dreading that last breath Holding your breath waiting for that last breath Gasping in your breath as he exhales his last breath Long Live LoveAs you sit and stand and pace and stare Wondering at this new world of without With only your breath in it Where…

Filed Under: Widowed, Miscellaneous Tagged With: widow, love, death, husband, poetry

Flooded, and Trying to Swim

July 1, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Homesick. This past week I’ve been so painfully homesick, not only for a place but for the people and community that make me feel home. So much has changed in the past few years, most of the time I think I’m pretty used to just being outside of my comfort zone. But then there are days when I’m so tired from that I guess, that I realize how…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: grief, death, homesick, missing, comfort, belonging, widow, sarah treanor

Dealing with Resentment

April 16, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

I think grief is an even trickier thing as time goes on. It becomes more infused with your new life and sometimes it’s hard to even know when struggles are related to your grief or to other things. I’ll be honest, I think I’m still holding on to some resentment that this other life I wanted to have will never happen. Even if 99% of me wants…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy Tagged With: grief, coping, death, perspective, resentment, sharing emotions, widow, sarah treanor, loss

A Shared Darkness

April 4, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

   Hi readers! Mike had some things come up and wasn’t able to post today, so I’m dropping in to take his place! He will be back with a new post next Tuesday!   It isn’t so often that I meet people who have been through as much darkness as I have. Although I know there are plenty of people who have, it’s not exactly like there are clubs for…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: widow, sarah treanor, loss, grief, lessons, death, sharing grief, shared darkness, kindred spirits, candles, lighting up the dark

Evolving

February 5, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Being that both Mike and I are both writers here, we do try to talk about our relationship as two widowed people, to share how this whole “chapter 2” thing can work. There are plenty of times this is awesome to write about – when we have things to share that show you how beautiful loving again can be. How beautiful it can be when two people…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: growth, learning, bereavement, widow, chapter 2, sarah treanor, problems, struggle, working together, loss, grief, new love, death, challenges

Building New Wings Ain’t Easy

January 29, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

For the first few years after Drew died, I lived in between lives. Back then, I remember distinctly feeling that way. Many of the photographs I took spoke to this. I wasn’t in my old life, nor was I in what I would define as a new life. I recall wondering what it would be like to one day live in a new life, instead of the in-between. Back then, I…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed and New Love, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: moving, insecurity, widow, change after loss, sarah treanor, loss, grief, Change, death, regaining confidence, love after loss, bereavement, new places

The Journey of a Life

January 22, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

  There are days that make you look at the places you are arriving more than the ones you are leaving behind. Mike and I spent most of the afternoon yesterday out hiking. It was the first warm, sunny day we’ve had in ages in Ohio… and it put me in an especially grateful mood just to be existing and feeling the sunshine. We went to a big…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Therapy, Miscellaneous Tagged With: grief, lessons, death, Nature, bereavement, river, journey, widow, sarah treanor, metaphor, loss

Bleeding Out the Pain

January 15, 2017 by Sarah Treanor and Mike Welker Leave a Comment

Last week I shared about feeling like some new layers of my grief are beginning to thaw as we shifted the calendar into what is my 5th year on this journey. I was pretty teary the week before, but it wasn’t until this past week that the breakdown came. Quite honestly, I’m glad for it. It was such a release. I don’t even know why it came when…

Filed Under: Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions Tagged With: bereavement, angry, widow, pissed off, sarah treanor, feeling pain, loss, allowing emotion, grief, breakdown, lessons, death, anger, 5+ years, five years

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