Can I just please say that I am so incredibly tired? So exhausted. Physically wiped out, mentally and emotionally drained and over-loaded. Too many boxes, too many bags, too many stairs to go up and down with heavy things, too many goodbyes to things I dont really want to say goodbye to, too many opinions […]

Every once in awhile, I will be going about my day and my life, and then something will happen where it shines a big bright spotlight about all of the loss and all of the things that never happened in my life and all of the ways that I am “different” than my friends. This […]

Ive always said that every end is another beginning, and every beginning is another end. Usually one happens because of the other, and they sort of blend together. They can both be emotional and scary and often times, when we are going through the end of something, the last thing we want to hear is […]

I almost forgot to write in here today, because life. But here I am, writing the blog at about 7:20pm eastern time. Better late than never I guess. My day was a bit wacky today, and started out a bit chaotic and rushed, which is why I forgot to write in here, since I normally […]

Sitting here listening to some music and Tom Petty comes on. “Oh, the waiting is the hardest part…..” Yes, Tom. It sure is. Right now, Im in a constant state of waiting with pretty much everything. I have taken the steps and done all I can do with some important things, and now I just […]

This is going to be short today, because I have to be out of my house in about 40 minutes so that total strangers can come and walk through, touch all our stuff, and then decide if our home is meant to be their home soon. Yup, today is our second Open House. Yesterday was […]

Hello Friends. Happy Sunday! Or, for those of you who are not using the word “happy” right now as part of your vocabulary, then I get it, and I wish you simply “Sunday.” Today is Fathers Day, and over the past 13 years since my husband’s sudden death, this day has varied in terms of […]

So, a couple years ago, my parents moved to an over 55 condo complex near the beach on Cape Cod. Its a wonderful place they live in, they have made many friends, and other than the fact that they are now a 2-hour drive away and I dont get to see them as much due […]

Yesterday was our most recent Soaring Spirits Regional Group meetup, held at a local coffee shop that we frequent. The place has a nice open concept for seating, the coffee is local and delicious, plus lots of yummy menu choices offering everything from bagels to quiche to muffins to cookies to scones. Its a comfy […]

Hey Friends. Today, on this Sunday, I feel sad. Nothing more profound, really. Just sad. And it’s the kind of sadness for all the things that you wish were, that cannot be. For things that cannot work out, but you think to yourself: “if only…..” Sadness for humans and love and emotions being so complicated, […]

Hello Friends. Happy Sunday. Last week I shared (finally) that my new beginning, Nick, and I are currently going through a divorce. It was tough to share that here, because I know that my story and OUR love story post-loss has brought a lot of hope to a lot of widowed people. I sincerely hope […]