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Maudlin

Posted on: November 5, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

One of the patterns I have noticed in friends’ responses to whatever I happen to post on social media is that, when I post some good news, “happy photos”, or an achievement, I get 3 or 4 times as many “likes”, comments, and whoopy doos, than if I post something hard, messy, painful and tough. There the sorrow just hangs out its forlorn…

Categories: Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses

It’s Just a Piece of Metal

Posted on: October 29, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

One of my favourite Mike stories, dating from before I met him, was frequently regaled in family conversations. I am sure that over almost thirty years, the story popped up at least once a year. More often after the kids were born. It made it onto the “Stories of Mike” CD Mike and Trisha recorded in the last weeks of his life while at the…

Categories: Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Miscellaneous

Running on Purpose_v2

Posted on: October 22, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

21st October 2019 – today would be 32 years since my first date with Mike. This is the second time I have written a blogpost with the exact same title. Hence the _v2.  The first was on my work website and was written on 7th June 2014. I had just completed a 32 km mountain trail run in our local hills, a “warm-up” for a bigger event later…

Categories: Widowed Memories, Multiple Losses

Syncopated Grief

Posted on: October 15, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

Today is one of those exquisitely beautiful, bright autumn days. With temperatures that would feel “just right” on a mid-summer’s day, but with the added benefit of a gentle breeze to doubly kiss my bare skin as I sit now, in the garden, writing this piece. I have been out on a “long run”. The kind of “long run” I do in the run-up to…

Categories: Widowed Effect on Family/Friends, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses, Miscellaneous

The Grief See-Saw Roundabout

Posted on: October 8, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

(Note: Even though I live in France, I am basically British, and in the UK we call what Americans call a “Teeter Totter” a “See-Saw”; and we call what Americans call a “Merry-Go-Round” a “Roundabout”. At least we did back in the last millennium when I last lived in the UK).   I have in my mind’s eye one of those playground…

Categories: Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses

Magical Music

Posted on: October 1, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

I am a new guest writer here on Soaring Spirits. I do realise that it’s a site for Widowed people. I am widowed. My husband Mike died of pancreatic cancer on 8th April 2017. He was 53. It feels like a life time ago. It feels like yesterday. It feels unreal. In addition, I have lost an amazing and one and only best platonic male friend, Don (11…

Categories: Widowed Effect on Family/Friends, Widowed Memories, Multiple Losses, Miscellaneous

Extreme Self-Care

Posted on: September 24, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

If I excel at anything(And I deliberately use the word “excel”)It is that I practise Extreme Self-CareExtremeSelfCareI am proud of my skill and expertiseHaughty, maybe even arrogantFor without it I too would surely have diedAnd what use is yet another Premature death?None whatsoever Here are some of my pet phrasesAnd if not daily, then Weekly…

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What You May Not Know About Grief

Posted on: September 17, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

What you don’t know is thatPeople die because of GriefPeople die because of a Broken HeartPeople Die by Suicide Because their Grief is Too Much to BearI had a call just last night from the Now-orphaned-daughter of a friendA widowWhose husband was my friend and colleague He had helped Mike get to Chemo treatments on occasion when I just couldn’t…

Categories: Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses

In The Past 24 Hours…

Posted on: September 10, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

In the past 24 hours… …I collected my youngest daughter’s “personal effects” from the clinic she’d been attending …I was told that her death by suicide most probably wasn’t pre-meditated, but an “on the spur of the moment” action …I learned that my baby girl had been terrified at the possibility of being a carrier for Lynch…

Categories: Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses

La Rentrée

Posted on: September 3, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

In France, where I live, early September, with its “back to school and back to work” is known as “la rentrée”.  This week is “la rentrée”. Schools go back. Three-year olds begin pre-school, known here as “Maternelle”.  Six-year olds begin primary/”Primaire”. Eleven-year olds begin secondary, known as “Collège”, and…

Categories: Widowed Parenting, Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses

Clutching On To Solo-Parenting

Posted on: September 3, 2019 | Posted by: Emma Pearson

These last few days have been a mad rush. I accompanied my “now youngest” daughter Megan, who is 18, to start university in the middle of the UK. We live in France, so it’s a bit of a schlep, and since we take a flight, there’s a limit to what we can carry. Furnishing her student digs, then, becomes a race against time and my credit card’s…

Categories: Widowed Parenting, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Emotions, Multiple Losses, Miscellaneous

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