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A Wake-Up Call

Posted on: October 3, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I’ve mentioned before that I remain young at heart, despite advancing age. However, for a couple of weeks now, I’ve been experiencing an unusual, mildly alarming health issue that has shaken my confidence a bit.  I can’t get into the particulars, but it suffices to say I am considering how I change my wicked ways […]

Categories: Widowed Therapy

Posted on: September 26, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I’m taking this week off from writing to attend to pressing personal business. Today, I’m reprinting a slightly revised version of a piece that appeared here about one year ago, around my sister’s birthday. My sister Lorrie may be gone but she is not forgotten.   So Sad September 22 marked my sister’s seventy-sixth birthday.  […]

https://widowsvoice.com/post/20786/

Categories: Widowed Emotions

“Spin and Marty”: A Model of Togetherness for the 21st Century?

Posted on: September 19, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

Since Labor Day we’ve been on such a rare run of perfect temperatures and splendid weather that the local naysayers have begun whispers that we must be in the throes of drought.  Maybe so, however, if you put the matter to a vote today, the continuation of our unseasonably warm and dry conditions wins in […]

Categories: Widowed Memories

The Blind Lead the Blind

Posted on: September 5, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

Mont wanted to update his resume, but his technologically savvy niece didn’t want to help him.  He sought to convert a PDF into a Word document and save both versions on his device. Mont surprised me when said he didn’t know how to perform the procedure. I offered to help, thus, the blind lead the […]

Categories: Uncategorized

Sunday Family Dinner

Posted on: August 29, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

As I mentioned last week I have been reviewing estate documents.  I’ve been thinking about what I want to do, and how to convey my testamentary wishes to my lawyer. I have some technical questions for him, too. *** Speaking of heirs, my nephew Kevin invited me to Sunday lunch at 3:30 p.m. His brother […]

Categories: Widowed Without Children, Uncategorized

Just Another Day

Posted on: August 22, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I sat on a stool at the kitchen counter, reviewing estate documents and setting up a Zoom meeting with my estate lawyer for early next week.  The sliding door to the rear porch and backyard was still wide open.  Weather permitting, opening this door is one of my first acts of the day. Then, if […]

Categories: Widowed Without Children

Birthday Girl

Posted on: August 15, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

Robyn was born in the 20th Century, the youngest of three children, and not too long before I arrived. She grew up in the big city, attended its public schools, and has a high school diploma to prove it. As I recall, her dad either owned or was employed in a neighborhood pharmacy, a place […]

Categories: Widowed and New Love, Uncategorized

Avoiding Solitude

Posted on: August 8, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I was in my front yard with Lola the pup when I noticed Allie, who lives in the blue house across the street, standing and looking out of her living room window. She is holding tiny Baby Etta, whom she and Drew recently welcomed back in late June, around the same time as my birthday.  […]

Categories: Widowed & Unmarried, Widowed Parenting, Uncategorized

Cat Ladies

Posted on: August 1, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

A recent Pew poll of people of different ages who don’t have biological children (see https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2024/07/25/the-experiences-of-u-s-adults-who-dont-have-children/ 7/25/24) suggests this circumstance is more common nowadays than when I came up. I could go into detail trying to explain how my situation evolved, but why bother?  Today I am seventy-three years old and don’t plan to become […]

Categories: Widowed Without Children, Uncategorized

Lola the Wonder Dog

Posted on: July 25, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

My first contribution to this blog, entitled “Please Allow Me to Introduce Myself”  (Feb. 4, 2021), concludes: “So I was left to ponder the BIG QUESTIONS: Am I destined to die alone? Why shouldn’t I get a dog?” *** The first question remains wide open. As for the second, well, I got the dog and […]

Categories: Widowed and Healing, Uncategorized

Revisiting My Past

Posted on: July 18, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

The sun on the water is sparkling. The sky is pure blue, cloudless. It was in the mid-eighties when we departed shore.  A light breeze is coming from the south. Robyn has wisely brought along a sweater today, ready for the changing weather conditions one encounters on the water. However, no sweater is needed for […]

Categories: Widowed Memories, Uncategorized

The Getaway

Posted on: July 11, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I read in Forbes that 47% of working Americans won’t take a summer vacation this year “because it’s too stressful to plan a getaway.”  “5 Productivity Hacks To Avoid The Summer Slump And Stay On Track,” by Bryan Robinson, Ph.D. (found at: https://www.forbes.com/sites/bryanrobinson/2024/07/02/5-productivity-hacks-to-avoid-thesummer-slump-and-stay-on-track/ ). While I no longer count myself among this group of Americans, […]

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