The method challenges me to write for 30 minutes without pause.
I begin with a smooth writing pen
A good one
that allows me to write really fast.
If my pen stops
I am to say
“I remember”
after which
I fill in two word sentence
and off I go again.
If that doesn’t work
then I write
“I am keeping my pen moving”
or
“I don’t know what to write….but I remember the last time that happened . . . (once again…writing!)
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It can look something like this . . .
Can’t sleep for the third time this week. Such a bummer. I’m tossing and turning and I know where this goes next….into worry. I think about all of my missteps, or mistakes, or the big decisions of which I am afraid to make a mistake. Then my mind turns to missing you, honey, and the tears begin. I know it is okay to cry, but I am so tired. What I really want is to sleep soundly. And now I am just keeping my pen moving until the 30 minute timer goes off . . . I remember . . .when this happened last month and I pulled out an old notebook and started doodling. I doodled the dog, the big sage plant in the backyard, the car (that one turned out sort of wonky….even for a doodle). But tonight, I am remembering some things that upset me earlier in the day and . . . (off we go!)
Some say this practice
is quite
therapeutic.
Stream of consciousness
writing
gets out
what’s inside;
it brings things to the light
and
sometimes,
it makes you so sleepy.
Another option: doodling
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About Kathie Neff
Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.
Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.
Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.