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Three Widows and Grief

Posted on: December 11, 2024 | Posted by: Kathie Neff

Three women on beach sand looking at the ocean.

One of us

was working too hard.

 

The other

was

wobbling

on the ladder

of

memories

on her death-a-versary.

 

Each of

us

with

our long list

of widow-worries

and widowed woes

 

showed

up

to help

the

other.

 

Being together

was

unplanned.

 

Beyond

what one

might expect,

 

being together

brought

so.much.laughter.

 

Roll on the floor

laughter.

 

Spirits

measured

0% alcohol;

 

was it

Resilience

who

brought

girl-like giggles

multiplying?

 

(You know about this, girls!)

 

no matter

what is said next . . .

 

in that moment

it is

oh

so

funny!

 

Tears?

 

There are

always

tears.

 

So many tears.

 

Our

comfort with

each other

allows

all kinds of

weather.

 

This time

laughter

arrived

as

Gift.

 

It is

an

understatement

to

say

that

being together

was

medicine for

 

Three widows

and

Grief.

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Anniversaries, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Community

About Kathie Neff

Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.

Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.

Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.

Long live love. XO

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