Remember the Seinfeld episode where George’s dad keeps yelling: “Serenity Now”? He’s supposed to be chanting it in a low melodic voice but instead yells it during times of stress…. I think I’m going to try it! 😉
The last month or so has been very stressful for me, and I’ve lost focus on the things that should matter to me right now. I’ve been running in circles trying to do it all, and in the course of it have managed to do all and nothing at the same time. Work has been intense, homework and school activities are constant, home responsibilities and chores, (lions and tiger and bears, oh my…). I’ve made some time (thanks to several of you who know who you are!) to do a few fun things, but I’m so worn out that I almost don’t enjoy them. So far I haven’t been too grumpy with Grayson, so that is a good thing. But, the challenge is finding the soft spot, something has got to give, and all of these demands seem like non-negotiable responsibilities owned by me alone.
The whole situation is making me less tolerant and grouchy. Case in point: I met a new neighbor this past week, a nice enough lady from across the street. I’ve been here three months and have never seen her. Her comment when we finally met was “I heard you work, so I guess that is why I haven’t seen you…..” She repeated this phrase: “you work…” three times throughout the course of our two minute conversation, and each time the judgement was implied: what kind of woman works instead of raising her children full-time? Who knew a working mother was such a novelty in the 21sth century…Good God I wanted to punch her. Of course I smiled, and said “yes, I do work” while inside I wanted to scream Frank Costanza style “Serenity NOWWWWW!” I guess I’m a little on edge. 😉
I find myself trying to list the things that are going well and the balls that I’m not dropping in an effort to calm the screaming inner voice. I’m looking forward to the long holiday weekend and the time with my family for Thanksgiving. I need a bit of grounding, and hanging with my parents and brother will make me feel a bit more “home” than I have been feeling lately. It will be a great way to carve out some quiet time and give thanks for the many blessings I have in my life.
I’m looking forward to coffee at sunrise looking out over the Gulf of Mexico and concluding in my mind “serenity now”.
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Happy Thanksgiving ya’ll