On June 30, 2021, I hit “publish” with equal parts excitement and nerves. Today, I’m hitting it one last time — with a full heart.
Keeping my promise to write here each Wednesday created a map of my path through grief. Nearly five years of questions, lessons, fears, laughter—feeling lost more times than I wish to acknowledge—I step away with deep gratitude.
Over time, I tracked a return of confidence and an awakening to new beginnings. I’m stepping into what’s next with gratitude for what’s been.
Same heart. New chapter.
Please join me in a giant welcome to Liliana Henao Holmes, your new Wednesday blogger!
Liliana, I’m truly sorry for your loss. What a journey you’ve traveled already. I am glad you found your way to us and grateful for your generous “yes” to stepping into the Wednesday slot. I wish you growth and discovery, as your words uncover your process. May your story’s medicine bring healing for you and may your words bring solace, comfort, and hope.
I’m delighted to share Liliana’s intro below.
Be well, my friends!
Warmly, Kathie
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HOLA, Bienvenid@s!
Welcome to this Widowed Warriors Wednesday corner, where I pour my bleeding heart out each week. I’m so glad you’re here, and I’m so sorry that you had to.
On December 3, 2023, my beautiful husband, Horace Riley Holmes Jr., died after living fully for three years with terminal brain cancer. I don’t have to tell you this, but life since has been a journey of grief, rebirth, and learning how to breathe again.
Who am I? That is a great question! And one I’m still answering in the aftermath of utter loss and devastation. This is what I got so far: I’m a mostly sane, youngish widowed mom to two amazing teen humans (most days 😄) and one sweet Border Collie/Lab mix 🐾. I’m learning how to live fully again, one small, slow step at a time.
Born in Bogotá, raised in Mexico, and now rooted in Washington, DC, I’m a journalist by trade, storyteller by heart, and a dancer, singer, and comedian in my dreams. I love salsa 💃🏽, laughter 😂, the beach 🏝️, deep friendships 🥰, and I am intentional about creating moments of joy.
My kids are my world. Faith, Family, and Fun are my anchors. Most days, I choose to keep dancing, laughing, and living. And sometimes, I sit in the suck. Both are sacred.
I hope my sharing brings comfort and validation to your journey.
Would you say hola in the comments? I’d love to know your name, where you’re reading from, and the name of your person. Or simply share whatever you need to get off your chest. I’m ready, bring it on!
🖤🤍❤️🩹
