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Resting in Peace

Posted on: May 21, 2025 | Posted by: Kathie Neff

Our Own Way

Labyrinth in Maui before sunrise.

We wish for our person to rest in peace—what about us?

Are there moments of peace that we create for ourselves? Grief follows us like a shadow. No matter where we turn it can show up. Up close and personal.

 

First thing in the morning, as we stretch from the night’s sleep.

Midday, amidst work on a hot afternoon—far from sleep.

During night’s sundown signs when, on a bad day, we may long for sleep’s sweet relief.

 

Blessed sleep.

 

We create our spaces to rest in peace in our own ways. For me, a formidable place of peace is found in beauty.

Today my peace is found in the labyrinth.

A labyrinth is a winding, unicursal path designed for purposeful journeying, reflection, or ritual. Dating back thousands of years and found in cultures across the world, the labyrinth is a tool for walking out one’s feelings of grief, sadness, or angst and making space for peace of mind.

 

Sometimes just seeing their beauty brings a moment of peace at just the right time.

 

What is your unique and personal way of creating peace in the center of your grief? It might be the ocean, a sunrise, or the forest. It could be watching the joy of small children or animals playing. Whatever brings you a space of inner peace, take time to rest in peace in spite of the grief. Or maybe because of it.

 

Today, I share my own practice with you.

Viewing these beautiful labyrinths in nature.

 

Wishing you peace in this moment.

If you would like to find a labyrinth near you, visit The Labyrinth Locater

Check out labyrinth walkers around the world celebrating World Labyrinth Day 2024 in this video:

Labyrinth on Oregon Coast.

Categories: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Community

About Kathie Neff

Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.

Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.

Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.

Long live love. XO

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