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the seed of me

Posted on: November 21, 2023 | Posted by: Kathie Neff

what shape waits . . .

the shape of what was

what is

what will be

transformation.

how am I different?

or the same?

in the seed of you . . .

the seed of me

of sorrow

of grief

of survival

of resilience

of gratitude

i am the seed of yesterdays

i am the seed of today

i am the seed of tomorrow

in a new way

that is us.

 

Apart

but still

Together

 

to grow . . .

i have grown

in so many ways.

grown in ways

i never asked for,

never wanted.

 

and spread its branches . . .

i spread my branches across the line that marks

past and present,

present and future,

circling round about THIS moment.

the present moment.

THIS present moment.

the only present moment

with or without you.

 

against a future sky?

what future?

what sky?

somehow you’re there

in the now

in the present

and

i’m told

in the future.

some future sky.

meet me there, my love.

Categories: Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions, Widowed Community

About Kathie Neff

Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.

Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.

Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.

Long live love. XO

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