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Summertime

Posted on: July 10, 2024 | Posted by: Kathie Neff

and it is HOT in Riverside, California!

Sunrise heat in summer in the colors of orange.

 

Awakening

to

climbing

temperatures

that

announce

at 6:00 am

another

hot

day

on the way.

 

 

I rise

to turn on the fans.

 

 

Oddly

the first thought is about

the heat

and not

about my widowed status.

 

 

You see,

there are many ways

grief follows us;

tracking us

through a variety of

events

or non-event

calendar

days.

 

 

Time-tracking

markers

such as

birthdays,

social gatherings

when this happened

or

when that happened

that mark

time.

 

 

Some

events

very

personal

to

us

alone.

 

 

This morning,

however,

it is just

a

very HOT day

in

Riverside,

California.

 

 

Grateful

for

the

tenor

of

a

simply-ordinary-day.

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed Memories, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones

About Kathie Neff

Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.

Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.

Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.

Long live love. XO

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