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An Invitation: Be Water

Posted on: October 4, 2023 | Posted by: Kathie Neff

Still water creek beneath a bridge.
Courtney Smith, unsplash.com

 

Be water.

Flowing, flexible and soft.

 

a still pond invites

insect landings; water

responds with ripples

(My responses to life can be gentle or fierce)

 

Subtly powerful

 

power lurks—ALIVE—just beneath the surface

(Am I in tune with the power within me?)

 

still waters contrast with

powerful flash floods 

wreaking destruction

(I am both powerful and serene.)

 

and

open.

 

wide open oceans, mysterious still

powerful beyond measure

(I, too, am mystery. I am still discovering the entirety of who I am and who I am becoming.)

 

Wild

and

serene.

 

water’s classic both/and-ness:

the immensity of floods that bring mayhem and destruction

and

the tiny drip, drip, drip of water over eons making mountains into valleys

both are true; both are water

(I can take down barriers that are not life-giving; In my own drip-drip fashion, I can steadily make progress with habits or ways of being that take time to change.)

 

Able to accept

all changes,

 

water always finds a way

through

around

beneath

over

under

(I am learning that I can find a way through, around, beneath, over or under the problems that come my way.)

 

yet still led

by the pull of

steady tides.

(There is a true-north in me that is balanced with the change that is required by Life. A work of a lifetime, I commit to staying in the work for my own well being.)

 

It is enough.

 

Photo courtesy of Matt Hardy via unsplash.com

 

The author, Victoria Erickson, invites us to “Be water.”

Perhaps we are . . .

 

Be water.

Flowing flexible and soft.

Subtly powerful and open.

Wild and serene.

Able to accept all changes, yet still led by the pull of steady tides.

It is enough.           

—Victoria Erickson

 

Drip of water
Erda Estremera unsplash.com

Categories: Newly Widowed, Widowed, Widowed and Healing, Widowed Milestones, Widowed Emotions

About Kathie Neff

Kathie Neff was widowed on April 15, 2021. She and her beloved husband, Dan, were high school sweethearts and enjoyed dancing and riding horses together. They lived in gratitude, hope and forgiveness for 50 years and nine months when Dan passed quietly late at night, surrounded by their seven children who, with Kathie, were caring for him in their family home.

Dan and Kathie have been a part of Camp Widow and Soaring Spirits International since its inception, as members of Michele Neff Hernandez’s cadre of helpers from the Neff family.

Kathie believes strongly in the strength and bond that is the gift of community and brings a heart of love for all who have been affected by death and dying.

Long live love. XO

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