Sometimes this whole ‘widow’ thing gets old. Like the chorus of an unhappy song that gets stuck in your head and keeps you awake. Over and over the words repeat singing those same lines again and again. You try to not pay attention. Try to forget the words. Try to listen to a new song. But your little brain has it so deeply embedded it can’t be persuaded to “hear” something else. 

I get tired of being a widow. I get sick of talking about it. I get annoyed with writing about it. I am over thinking about it. But still it sticks. Stuck in the groove. Firmly planted on repeat. 
I’d love a new reality. To have something new to think about. A new conversation that didn’t ultimately, and at times embarassingly, come around to the fact that my husband is dead. I want to be over it. I am sick of it. I don’t want to think about it, breathe it, speak it or feel it. It’s old.