November 1st is a day when a number of different cultures honor their dear, departed loved ones. The most widely known of these celebrations occurs in Mexico and is called El Dia de Los Muertos — The Day of the Dead. Similar celebrations occur during the first few days of November in Guatemala, El Salvador, Ecuador, Haiti, the Philippines, Italy, Spain, the Czech Republic, Poland, Hungary and many other Eastern European countries.
The first time November 1st rolled around after Mario died, I went through the ritual of creating a little alter for him. It had pictures, candles, a glass of wine, some LEGO bricks, little clay skulls and orange flowers.
In many cultures, there is no doubt that loved ones who have passed experience an afterlife. Mexico’s tradition of ofrendas (offerings) for the dead came from Aztec tradition where the dead had tasks to do to reach their final resting place (Mictlán). So the offerings were usually things that would help them on this journey.
Throughout many areas, it’s also a time to visit with your loved ones and ancestors, so many people will go to the cemetery and tidy up their relative’s grave. Throughout Eastern Europe the tradition also involves lighting small lanterns and leaving flowers.
In the U.S. we do see many of the various Day of the Dead activities because it is such a multi-cultural country, We have all bought the traditions of our ancestors with us.
I know that most of us frequently think about those who we’ve lost, but I like that traditions meant to honor and celebrate loved ones on special days exist. Death is a common denominator. It’s something universal to all of us. It also allows for special days, with purpose. A Day of the Dead does not celebrate death, but the lives of those lost.
