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Death Becomes Me

Posted on: November 15, 2019 | Posted by: Kelley Lynn

I never would have pictured myself being so ecstatic and thrilled and jazzed up to talk about death and loss and grief. I never would have thought my heart would beat faster at the thought of making another widowed person laugh at something dark, through their tears. I never saw it coming that my life would consist of comforting people and listening to people as they walk through this narrow and confusing unlit pathway called grief. 

But here I am, ecstatic. 

Here I sit, heart beating … 

Here I wait, to by that listening ear 

for the next person in pain. 

I like telling someone who is sitting in the darkness,

that it may be awhile longer, 

but they WILL feel better and

they WILL want to live again, 

even thrive again. 

They may even love again. 

Either way,

life will be something they once again

desire. 

 

This is my favorite thing, 

seeing someone emerge out of that darkness

and find pieces of hope to hang onto. 

 

What a beautiful reason to wake up in the morning.

Categories: Widowed and Healing, Widowed Therapy

About Kelley Lynn

Kelley Lynn is a comedian, actor, TED talk speaker, and author of "My Husband Is Not a Rainbow: the brutally awful, hilarious truth about life, love, grief, and loss." Kelley was widowed at age 39 when her beautiful husband Don left for work one morning and never came home. (sudden heart attack.) Since then, it has been her mission to change the conversations we have surrounding grief and death, and to help those who are sitting in the dark, to find some light again. Kelley is a proud kitty mom to Sammy and Autumn, the 2 rescues that she and Don adopted together. In 2017, Kelley met her next great love story, Nick. They married on New Year's Eve 2020 in a FB LIVE ceremony, and are loving their new home in Westminster, MA.

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