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Tree-silience

Posted on: June 6, 2026 | Posted by: Lisa Begin-Kruysman

June has arrived, and most people up north are experiencing warmer and longer sunny days. Now, I can share without feeling badly that it has felt like summer here since early April. There were some days not too long ago, even in May, when it was near 90 degrees here, but only in the high 50s up in New Jersey, my home state. I would almost feel guilty about the fact that it was often too warm for yard work.

When Rich passed, I was living in coastal Southeast Georgia and had acclimated to the much longer warm season there. I’d considered returning north, but the prospect of wintering again didn’t appeal to me although I do miss the summer at the Jersey Shore. Instead I headed two hours south to rural Old Florida.

One thing I love about living here is that I can spend so much time outdoors, and for the most part, if the winter is typically mild (unlike last very year’s very cold January), the growing season is so long. I’ve enjoyed learning about native trees and I love living in an area that has so many semi-tropical varieties. In so many places, however, too many trees are being destroyed and I think if people truly understood how important they are to the environment more concern would be evident and clear cutting would stop. 

Moringa Seedlings growing up. AKA The Tree of Life.

The woods behind my home in Georgia were nearly totally razed last year. In there place a berm, fencing and a new development emerged. It completely transformed my backyard in a way that is still upsetsetting, and I haven’t shared much about. Just like the circumstances surrounding the loss of my husband, I had no control over what was going on with my immediate surroundings. I’m thankful that my home in rural Florida is for now at least a peaceful haven. 

We have had several old trees removed in the past two years. Live oaks of an estimated age of 350 years can become destructive. After soaking rains, we can hear trees snapping and the thuds of falling branches in the surrounding forest. 

Towering Oak. Probably over 300 years old.

The trees removed from this property have been replaced by other trees, Cabbage and Queen Palms have been trimmed for new growth and by removing limbs from the live oaks, other trees can flourish. 

D.D. Blanchard Magnolia in foreground. Cabbage palms that just grow naturally here but are often swallowed up by live oak.

During last winter’s “Florida Freeze” so many trees and plants seemed to succumb to the cold. Come March, the yard looked like death warmed over. But, local tree and garden experts advised to be patient as they said that many plant life would soon revive. They were right. Plants and trees that looked totally hopeless began to regenerate in ways I didn’t think possible.  

A Shrimp Tree Casts its Shadow.

One of my favorite trees on this property is a singular Maple that despite its trunk being literally “see through” it seems to carry on, despite its core being eroded. I guess there’s a lesson in resilience, or “tree-silience” to be found in this small one acre patch of natural beauty. From the compromised, yet thriving Maple, to the presumed dead plants and trees that are emerging strong and healthy as ever. 

Lone Maple with rotted trunk.

 

Holey Maple Tree!

Enjoy these last two weeks of spring. Summer will be here before we know it and with it, hopefully a sense of revival through resilience. 

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About Lisa Begin-Kruysman

Originally from New Jersey, artist/writer/blogger Lisa Begin-Kruysman now calls Southeast Georgia and Florida home. It was during a road trip in October 2021, when she and her husband Rich, who served militarily as a Navy Corpsman, were returning south after celebrating their 25th Wedding Anniversary, that he became ill, passing just three weeks later. The author of several books, including Dog's Best Friend (McFarland & Co. 2014) mostly inspired by the special human-canine bond, Lisa serves on the Board of Directors for the Dog Writers Association of America and now returns to blogging posting for Widow's Voice with the intention of sharing her personal experience of widowhood with those who know the struggles first-hand and to perhaps help those who struggle to understand the daily challenges facing those who've lost a spouse or significant other. She is currently writing a memoir about her Widowed Experience and the comfort she has derived from her relationship with dogs.

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