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Step Right This Way

Posted on: September 4, 2025 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

I have been putting together a proposal for a 2-hour tour of one of the world’s coolest neighborhoods.  At least that’s how Time Out describes the neighborhood where I live. To me, it is simply the place where I have chosen to spend most of my adult life.

Describing it as one of the world’s coolest may or may not be factually accurate, but it provides a hook I’ll use to drum up interest among Hi USA’s clientele. This not-for-profit organization has invited me to be one of its local tour guides. Hi USA’s stated mission is “fostering a deeper understanding of people, places, and cultures.”  It operates hostels throughout the United States, and though not explicitly limited, appeals mainly to young adult travelers.

I recently stumbled across it by chance, while exploring various volunteer opportunities to fill my flexible schedule.  Among other things, what interested me was the prospect of designing my own tour. I interviewed online and subsequently extended an invitation to participate, pending a background check, which I found reassuring.

***

As I begin this new assignment, I have started to accept the reality that I will not likely be engaging in future gainful employment. Of course, it’s not as if I have been hunting for such work.  Yet, ironically, just this past week, I received two unsolicited job applications, only to quickly discover that I am already aged out.

***

So, I am left to my own devices to find, even invent, meaningful opportunities for myself. This is my reality.  I constantly consider undertaking new projects.  The short of it is: Thinking about such things is one matter; doing is a different matter.

For this reason, I can’t seriously discuss any of them here.  It would be pointless.

***

However, I feed on my restlessness. It helps keep me alert and hungry, not a given when you’re in your mid-seventies and have no hard day-to-day responsibilities regarding work or family. (Also, it might not be too great a stretch to suggest that I am prone to occasional bouts of lassitude!)

At the very least, planning for a 2-hour tour ought to keep me occupied in the near term.  I have already discovered numerous new facts about my neighborhood. More generally, I’ve unearthed several good sources of specific and reliable information, and, depending on how deep the dive, I can access old photographs, maps, and the histories of points of interest.  This preliminary research is likely to take me several days or more to complete. Fortunately, I have time.

Finally, although Hi USA has strict anti-fraternization rules for volunteers, the prospect of meeting and interacting with groups of young travelers is a major draw for me, much like the youthful vibe of my neighborhood makes this an enjoyable and interesting place to live.

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There are times when my shifting whims feel like tall grasses swaying in a strong breeze. Regardless, I suppose I will pursue new endeavors as long as I am physically and mentally able.  After all, everybody who reads these posts already knows firsthand and better than most that when your time is up, it’s up.

 

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About Gary Ravitz

In relevant part, my musings are for me. It’s one of the ways in which I process losing my sweetest. Of course, Lee didn’t want to die. She had fought like hell, but the relentless cancers kept coming: Skin cancers; breast cancer; head and neck cancer; colon cancer; and finally, the deadly pancreatic cancer. In June 2020, and only after being pressed hard by Lee, her oncologist opined that my wife had from two weeks to two months left to live, turned on her heels and nearly sprinted from the hospital room, never again to be seen or heard from by us. I promptly removed Lee from the hospital and brought her home. It was the right thing to do and I only wish I had acted sooner over “the best” medical advice to the contrary. In fact, my sweet wife only had nine days left to live. At the final, she embraced her own death with great courage and unfailing kindness. It was a truly remarkable display of grace and wondrous to behold. It was my great privilege and honor to be with her every step of the way. And now, it’s my privilege to be able to write a few words to you each week. In a nutshell, I believe every journey is unique, but, hopefully, to know that you do not have to walk it alone can also be reassuring. And, along the way, you might hear a bit more information about me.
Gary

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