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Seniors on the Move

Posted on: October 10, 2024 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

Tomorrow Robyn and I are off to New York City for Robyn’s birthday weekend!  It is not her actual birthdate.  That occurred in August. Consider it a belated celebration, although, as I recall, we also celebrated heartily on her real birth date.

We enjoy any excuse to celebrate together. And, why not?

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Originally, we had discussed a trip to London, a destination I’ve not visited. However, I quickly realized that a “jaunt across the pond” would be impractical. A long weekend meant we’d have to eliminate many “must-see” attractions in and around London.  Also, even a barebones itinerary, such as I had been contemplating, would have required additional and expensive travel arrangements.

One final deal breaker for me was the English weather. In terms of the weather, mid-October in England might be even less dependable than our own notoriously undependable weather, except London can be counted on to be both cooler and damper.  Indeed, this weekend’s weather forecast for London calls for a typical mix with the daily high temperature hovering around fifty-five degrees Fahrenheit.

Sadly, I’m forced to conclude that England is perhaps not the best choice for a “spur-of-the-moment” Fall getaway.  Also, we’ll have plenty of opportunities right here at home to catch chill.

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Like London, New York City is an expensive weekend destination, but at least the weather is predicted to be mostly sunny with temperatures nearer seventy degrees.  Of course, good weather and mild temperatures are welcome when you plan to sightsee on foot or via public transportation.

For fashionistas and foodies, New York City is the trendy choice, however, we’re merely out-of-town tourists, a couple of more yokels happy to take in the familiar tourist sites: riding the Staten Island Ferry around the Statue of Liberty and taking in the famous city skyline; catching a Broadway show; a leisurely spent morning at the MOMA; honoring the memory of the departed by visiting the 911 memorial and its museum; strolling through Central Park; gawking at the sights, smells and sounds of tawdry Times Square and Chinatown.

And then, there is the food.  New York City lays claim as the birthplace of red-sauce Italian American cooking, and, of course, there is pizza by the slice. It has a vibrant Chinatown, home to the highest concentration of Chinese people in the Western Hemisphere!  And deli!   You get the picture.  America’s largest city should have a varied menu of deliciousness. It would be unconscionable to settle for pedestrian fast-food.

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The best part of traveling with Robyn is sharing her company, beginning later today. It feels as though the more time we spend together, the more we want to be together.  It’s a good direction to be heading, I think.

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Coincidentally, I’ve just gotten off the phone with my friends Bob and Linda in Ohio. They are heading off on a family holiday this weekend, then a trip to the north country for Fall colors.  And just yesterday, I spoke to Z in Arizona. I am informed that he and Joanne are headed here next week.

Seniors on the move!  You gotta love it.

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About Gary Ravitz

In relevant part, my musings are for me. It’s one of the ways in which I process losing my sweetest. Of course, Lee didn’t want to die. She had fought like hell, but the relentless cancers kept coming: Skin cancers; breast cancer; head and neck cancer; colon cancer; and finally, the deadly pancreatic cancer. In June 2020, and only after being pressed hard by Lee, her oncologist opined that my wife had from two weeks to two months left to live, turned on her heels and nearly sprinted from the hospital room, never again to be seen or heard from by us. I promptly removed Lee from the hospital and brought her home. It was the right thing to do and I only wish I had acted sooner over “the best” medical advice to the contrary. In fact, my sweet wife only had nine days left to live. At the final, she embraced her own death with great courage and unfailing kindness. It was a truly remarkable display of grace and wondrous to behold. It was my great privilege and honor to be with her every step of the way. And now, it’s my privilege to be able to write a few words to you each week. In a nutshell, I believe every journey is unique, but, hopefully, to know that you do not have to walk it alone can also be reassuring. And, along the way, you might hear a bit more information about me.
Gary

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