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A Glimmer of Hope?

Posted on: April 23, 2026 | Posted by: Gary Ravitz

Lee died mere months after being diagnosed with pancreatic cancer.  Hers was a quick and painful death.

Since she had many different cancers, I am more familiar than many with this killer.  Whereas recent medical advances brighten the outlook for some victims of cancer, for example, people with certain blood cancers are surviving in spite of their disease, pancreatic cancer is a stone-cold killer.

Currently, a diagnosis of pancreatic cancer imposes an irrevocable death sentence.  Pancreatic cancer kills more than 50,000 Americans each year, accounting for about 8 percent of cancer deaths in the United States. Many patients die within a year of diagnosis, and only thirteen percent of people with pancreatic cancer survive for five years.  For comparison’s sake, thirty percent of lung cancer patients, another awful disease and the third most common form of cancer, have a five-year survival rate.

To my mind, pancreatic cancer will always be the villain that took my wife away from me. So, whenever I come across any news that could be construed as positive for its victims, I am closely attuned to it.

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A recent New York Times article, ‘Two Drugs Stir Hope for Treatment of Deadly Pancreatic Cancer,’ opines, historically, “when it comes to pancreatic cancer, there are few treatment options, and those that are available often do little…” The article does not mention how, in addition to being intrusive and painful, attempts to treat the disease can be demeaning for patients and family members alike, holding out false glimmers of hope while robbing them of precious time that could be better spent outside the sterile confines of a hospital room.

In one late-stage clinical study involving approximately five hundred patients, a new experimental drug doubled patients’ life expectancy from seven months to more than thirteen months, a “gain… virtually unheard-of in the field,” according to the Timers article. The side effects are said to be “manageable.”

A second clinical study involved a “personalized vaccine using mRNA technology.” Just sixteen patients were involved.  Eight showed immune responses, and of these, six survived up to six years. In comparison, only two of the six who did not get an immune response lived this long.

To be sure, these look like baby steps.  It is likely that it will still be a long time before the survival rate for pancreatic cancer approaches the rates for other types of cancer.

Of course, if you were to ask a family member of a terminal cancer patient, he or she might say they would be grateful for any additional time.  I know I would have been.  And it might sound presumptuous to speak for the deceased, but I have a strong suspicion that if I asked Lee, she’d concur.

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About Gary Ravitz

In relevant part, my musings are for me. It’s one of the ways in which I process losing my sweetest. Of course, Lee didn’t want to die. She had fought like hell, but the relentless cancers kept coming: Skin cancers; breast cancer; head and neck cancer; colon cancer; and finally, the deadly pancreatic cancer. In June 2020, and only after being pressed hard by Lee, her oncologist opined that my wife had from two weeks to two months left to live, turned on her heels and nearly sprinted from the hospital room, never again to be seen or heard from by us. I promptly removed Lee from the hospital and brought her home. It was the right thing to do and I only wish I had acted sooner over “the best” medical advice to the contrary. In fact, my sweet wife only had nine days left to live. At the final, she embraced her own death with great courage and unfailing kindness. It was a truly remarkable display of grace and wondrous to behold. It was my great privilege and honor to be with her every step of the way. And now, it’s my privilege to be able to write a few words to you each week. In a nutshell, I believe every journey is unique, but, hopefully, to know that you do not have to walk it alone can also be reassuring. And, along the way, you might hear a bit more information about me.
Gary

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